May 18, 2007

Thank you for the past 30 years.

People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When we know which one it is, we will know what to do for that person. When someone is in our life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need we have expressed.

They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they actually are.

They are there for the reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force us to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON or a phase as we commonly call it, because our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring us an experience of peace or simply just make us laugh. They may teach us something we have never done b4. They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teaches us lifetime lessons, things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what we have learnt to good use in all other relationships and areas of our life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. But i firmly believe that Friendship lasts a lifetime be it whichever part of reason, season or lifetime, you came into my life.

Thank you for being a part of my life, no matter who you are, at which point of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

From your friend of all times,

Jesuafreak/JF/JX/Ah Siong/Ah Pui and whichever else name you know me by

6 comments:

PensiveTabby said...

Thank you for being in my life as well. :)

Have a Happy 30th!!

From your lifetime(hopefully) frd
Handsome Cat

Hee

JesuaFreak said...

The above comment sounds abit ghey... *shudderz*

For the record, i am str8....

A Lifetime is abt as long as we breathe.. well.. lets see where the future takes our friendship la.. but i am pretty sure we will go some distance..

Thank you brudder

Alex said...

farking gheys!

hao la, lai frenly. =p

None said...

Happy birthday!!

i also Ah Xiong...with an "X". hehe

fey said...

Happy Birthday! Nan Ren San Shi Yi Tiao Long!!!

Daydreamer, I am said...

Grrreat Birthday, Bro!
Your friendship has been much treasured (no matter what kind of squabbles along the years! heh!). Wishing u a blessed year ahead! Jer29:11...